Play with fate, bond with fate

 Play with fate, bond with fate

This phrase implies that one should learn to interact with fate in a balanced way — sometimes challenging it with effort and determination (playing with fate) and sometimes accepting and aligning with it (bonding with fate). It reflects the philosophical idea of balancing free will and destiny in life.

Daughter 2 Doctor

this blog started with small notes for the past 2 years. detailed structured blog will be written later.

 20-Oct-2016 -  morning prayer.

I have two children. One Thursday, I was standing in front of Guru Nathar to worship him, feeling a bit sad as I didn’t have any flowers. At that moment, a strange thought occurred to me. I called my two daughters, made them stand before Guru Nathar, and said, “Oh divine sage with flower-like feet! Today, with a full heart, I offer these two daughters to you as your own daughters.”

"From today onwards, I, your humble servant, will raise your daughters and fulfill my duty as their caretaker, my Lord! Whether they achieve great feats and win medals or face trials and gain valuable experiences — for both, you alone will be their father and take responsibility. I will only carry out my duty with utmost dedication and sincerity," I wholeheartedly pledged.

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Surrendered Love

Spiritual Freedom Love

Detached Love

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27-Nov-2022 - conversation with my daughter about the purpose the human soul :-

[11/27, 10:42 PM] : place of soul

: difference between uyir and athma

: god inside our soul

: temple prayer

: purpose of birth

: subconscious mind or inner mind

: outer mind

: purpose of  subconscious mind

: who should dominate inner or outer mind?

: what if outer mind tried to control inner mind?

: what if inner mind tries to control outer mind?

: what are the positive if maya karma and ego?

: what are the negative of maya karma and ego?:

: what must be the daily prayer without fail?

: we should never fear of what?

: we should always fear of what?

no output without input

career path discussion with daughter.

daddy: what is your interest after school?

daughter: medical

dad: but you have not studied well in school.

dau: yes, but i will prepare well for medical.

dad: medical is very difficult. why not to become a software consultant? more money, foreign travels, enjoy personal life more and more. also, degree in software from good college is very easy and shorter period compare to medical.  no such benefits and enjoyment in medical. why can not you change your interest from medical to software?

dau: i understand. i still want medical to serve the human society. i hear the same from my inner voice. why medical is bad?

dad: as a girl, marriage at the right age is important. peace of mind in personal life is important. if choose medical, then marriage will be after age 30 or around 35. also child birth after 35 or around 40 is too late or no chance of child may be. personal life enjoyment may be very lessor.

dau: i understand. but still want to be in medical. i am ok with whatever personal life. i feel i am designed for medical to serve the humen society.

dad: well. let be check your design. allow me some time.

checking her subconscious mind through horoscope. karma is nothing but what is registered in subconscious mind from previous birth. subconscious mind is the reflector of the arrested soul particles inside the brain neuron. such particle will be liberated when it is really achieved or vice-versa. it is the fate which cannot be easily changed by humen. this is something beyond  our usual outer mind. result will be great if both subconscious and outer mind work together for the same goal. more in seperate blog.

analysed the horoscope to find the average percentage of the possibility in medical study.

1) my close friend who studied astrology as hobby. found 70% chance.

he learnt from below website.

https://classroom2007.blogspot.com/2024/09/astrology_26.html?m=1

my rating : 3.9 / 5

2) konrangi dhanasekar astrologer. found 80% chance. also he confidently told that this student has to study by spending more money. means, will not score much in neet exam. this has surprised me. i recommend him.

https://youtube.com/@kondrankidhanasekar?si=-TUJPSWjByi-h6I2

my rating : 4.5 / 5

3) guru bakyanathan astrologer. found 50% chance.

https://exactpredictions.in/showastrologer.php?memberid=Xx70

my rating : 4.0 / 5

5) kovai umadevi astrologer. promised 100%. she confidently "promised" that this student must study medicine or atleast medicine relevant. this has surprised me. i recommend her.

https://youtube.com/@astro_ulagam69?si=NIzMa8MLMkaYJcd8

my rating : 4.5 / 5

4) paramakudi perumal kovil nearby astrologer. found 60% chance.

my rating : 4.0 / 5

calculate average percentage = ( 70 + 50 + 60 + 80 + 100 ) = 360 / 5 = 72 %.

above 70% looks ok to decide the karma. hope so.

note : just checking astrology itself will not help 100%. this just gives us approximate 50% clue for decison making. but consult atleast 5 geniune or experienced or qualified astrologers prediction and take the average percentage. it should be above 65%

dad: i agree with your medical interest. i hope you will work hard for that. but your hard work alone is not enough. your subconscious mind should closely work with your outer mind without thicker firewall of maya, karma and ego poisons. it is very difficult to overcome this firewall.

dau: what is the procedure to overcome this firewall?

dad: you have to pray the almighty everyday in a different way. this is not like everyone pray the god. this firewall is always dependent to your physical life. so, you have to challenge that everyday without fail. i mean, pray willingly, truly with love as below.

"Oh Lord, please grant me the blessing of reaching your divine feet with compassion and grace. I eagerly await this fortune with great joy and yearning in my heart."

dau: this prayer looks very strange. if i die, then how can i serve for the people. i will also have my personal life in future. does it mean i should not marry? or can i live life like others?

dad: when someone like you say "i", it always means your outer mind and the above firewall. that has to be challenged everyday. this prayer is the great technique i got from my soul master to weaken that firewall. i practice this for several years everyday without fail. i still live a normal family life and enjoy it more than others. so, you can also live your personal life like others. but self disciple is very important in the life. you can enjoy your marriage life like others. but always start your day with this prayer. read my other blogs to understand this better. you have lengthy wings to fly as high as you like. always remember that you are an angel. you will not be affected by anything or anyone. ensure that your soul master's feet is always on top of your head. the holy master can easily connect your subconscious mind to show you the right path and give the required courage.

dau: got it. thank you. i will take 1 year break to prepare neet.

dad: god bless you.

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Challenges in year 2023-24 :-

several health issues due to stress.

could not score in physics as not taken maths in higher secondary.

lost the hope of good mark in neet.

convinced to study other option.

taken admission in VLB janakiammal college for Bsc AI. 

taken admission in Krishna college for Bsc Comp. convinced to accept I.T field. course fee paid.

selected in Amrita kollam college entrance for Bio-tech. not willing to go IT field. plan change. got admitted and has to travel in one week.  convinced to stay in hostal which is for-away from home. fee paid. krishna fee refunded.

went to family doctor for medical fitness certificate for Amrita hostel. gurunathar and palaniandavar has given a twist through our family doctor.

plan changed to go foreign to study medicine. Here's a structured translation of the content:

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Questions for Those Aspiring to Study Medicine

1) What is the reason for wanting to pursue medical education?

• To earn a lot of money?
• For family pride?
• Due to parental pressure?
• For prestige, status, or influence?
• To serve humanity and society?
• To prove oneself in a competition or challenge?
• Or is it a spontaneous inner calling (deep intuition) with no external expectations?

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2) Are you someone who:

• Aims to score above 600 in the NEET exam?
• Has consistently scored first rank since 8th grade?
• Chose Mathematics as an additional subject in the 12th grade to score higher in Physics?
• Scored more than 500 on the first attempt at NEET?
• Has unwavering faith in the karma embedded in the subconscious mind?

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3) What if your horoscope does not support a career in medicine, but you still persist in studying it?

• You can certainly study it, but becoming a famous doctor might not be possible.
• In our residential area in Coimbatore, there are many specialists with M.D. degrees, but a particular MBBS doctor is renowned as a "lucky doctor" (Kairasi Maruthuvanar). Most patients flock to him daily, regardless of the other specialists' qualifications.

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4) What if your horoscope shows support for medicine, you have the interest and capability to study it, but you still don’t get the opportunity?

• I have a relative with a similar experience. He is now a well-earning software engineer, but he still feels unfulfilled because he couldn’t become a doctor.
• Even though the planet Jupiter (Guru) was in a favorable position in his horoscope, there was no benefit because Jupiter lacked the support of any of the "Asura planets" (like Mars or Ketu).
• If he had pursued medical education despite this, he may not have become a practicing doctor but instead might have taken a teaching role related to medical studies.

Karma’s Perspective:

• In his previous birth, he might have engaged in charity (daan-dharma) but only for Brahmins, with caste-based bias. As a result, even though Jupiter is favorable in his horoscope in this birth, other planets did not support him.

Lesson:

• When doing charity or acts of service, do it with compassion and without any caste-based discrimination.

Because of his deep inner desire, he may fulfill this dream by seeing his child become a doctor. Additionally, if he takes another birth, his karma will have accumulated to give him the possibility of becoming a doctor in the next life.

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5) Isn’t everything determined by our own talent and effort? Is all this talk of karma, destiny, and deep intuition even necessary?

• A valid question. Despite attempting the NEET exam multiple times, why do many students still fail to pass?
• Why are there so many student suicides?
• Can mere wealth bring talent? Can fate (destiny) be changed with money alone?

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This passage invites introspection on the motives, challenges, and unseen forces influencing one’s pursuit of medical education. It emphasizes the blend of effort, karma, and destiny while highlighting the spiritual and philosophical aspects of ambition and success.

regards,

Agathya Bakthan.